I once worked with someone who was extremely anti-anythingtodowithfirearms.

He was the first in line to get venison steaks.

He also said he would come to my house if "problems" started because, as he said, "I know you've got guns.".

He also didn't understand why I told him that he wouldn't be welcome there if "problems" started.

There's a big difference in "helping" someone as opposed to "taking care" of someone who is capable of taking care of himself.